The Gray Divorce Podcast
Welcome to The Gray Divorce Podcast. Join Divorce Financial Advisor and Retirement Planning Counsellor Andrew Hatherley and guest experts as they help late life divorcees build the financial foundation for a meaningful life after divorce. There is life after divorce!
Episodes
50 episodes since 2022
Special 50th Edition of The Gray Divorce Podcast
Andrew celebrates the 50th episode of the podcast by reviewing your five favorite episodes. He also discusses the origins of the podcast In the hope that it might inspire listeners to get started on their own creative projects.
September 07, 2024
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Episode 50
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16:22
Does Money Buy Happiness?
In Episode 49 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, Andrew discusses the question of whether money can buy happiness. He discusses recent research that suggests a high degree of correlation between money and happiness. He discusses previous research whi...
August 24, 2024
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Episode 49
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16:41
Business Valuation in Divorce with Jennifer Allen CPA, ABV
Andrew chats with Jennifer Allen, a business valuation specialist based in Las Vegas. They discuss the importance of business valuation in divorce. How do business buyouts work? What does she look for in business financials to detect attempts t...
August 10, 2024
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Episode 48
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28:29
Life After Gray Divorce - Rebuilding Overseas with Jeff Opdyke
In episode 47 of The Gray Divorce Podcast Andrew chats with writer and international traveler Jeff Opdyke. Jeff went through a midlife divorce at age 50, after a 25-year marriage. Shortly after the divorce his life was shaken again when he lost...
July 27, 2024
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Episode 47
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46:38
Finding Hidden Cash in Divorce with Laurie Dyke CPA, CFF, CFE
In Episode 46 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, Andrew chats with Laurie Dyke, a Certified Public Accountant, Certified in Financial Forensics and Certified Fraud Examiner. They discuss some of the ways a spouse may hide cash or intentionally underv...
July 13, 2024
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Episode 46
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29:26
Resetting after Gray Divorce - The Importance of Gratitude
In Episode 45 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, Andrew discusses the importance of practicing gratitude both during and after divorce. He discusses the psychological and physical benefits of gratitude and offers some tips on how to bring more gratit...
June 29, 2024
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Episode 45
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15:58
The Legal Cost of Divorce
In Episode 44 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, I discuss the legal costs of divorce. I look at four different divorce processes; traditional litigious divorce through the courts, Collaborative Divorce, mediation and the Amicable Divorce Network and...
June 15, 2024
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Episode 44
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15:46
Living Abroad After Gray Divorce, Part 2 with Jennifer Stevens, Editor of International Living
In Episode 43 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, Andrew chats with the editor of International Living magazine Jennifer Stevens in the second of a two-part discussion. They discuss the results of International Living’s Global Retirement Inde...
June 01, 2024
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Episode 43
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49:13
Coaching Stepparents at all Stages of Life with Maria Natapov
In Episode 42 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, Andrew chats with Stepparenting Coach Maria Natapov. They discuss Maria’s focus on helping her clients confidently blend their families through all stages of life.
May 18, 2024
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Episode 42
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37:48
Living Abroad After Gray Divorce, Part 1 with Jennifer Stevens, Editor of International Living
In Episode 41 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, Andrew chats with the editor of International Living magazine Jennifer Stevens in the first of a two-part discussion. They discuss some of the benefits of living internationally and some of th...
May 04, 2024
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Episode 41
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36:41
Working with Men as a Relationship Engineer with Bob Wischer
In Episode 40 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, Andrew chats with Life and Health Coach Bob Wischer. A self-described “relationship engineer” Bob is the founder of Heart Forged Coaching and the host of the Men Becoming Better Men podca...
April 20, 2024
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Episode 40
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39:37
Working with Women as a Divorce Coach with Nanette Murphy
In Episode 39 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, Andrew chats with Life, Health, and Divorce Coach Nanette Murphy. They discuss Nanette’s focus on coaching women through mid-late life divorce after she experienced her own mid-life divorce after decad...
April 06, 2024
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Episode 39
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40:38
Estate Planning and Gray Divorce with Attorney Amanda Wedl
In Episode 38 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, I chat with attorney Amanda Wedl. We discuss the topic of estate planning and gray divorce. What are some “must dos” and “must avoids” for older divorcees to ensure that their last wishes are fulfilled...
March 23, 2024
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Episode 38
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33:36
All About Pre-Nups and Post-Nups with Attorney Molly Rosenblum
In Episode 37 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, I chat with attorney Molly Rosenblum. We discuss the topic of prenuptial and postnuptial agreements. What are they and why should a couple have a pre-nup before marriage or get a post-nup after marriag...
March 09, 2024
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Episode 37
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29:30
Divorce and Finances - A Chat with Carol Lee Roberts, IDFA President
In episode 36 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, I am interviewed by Carol Lee Roberts, president of the Institute for Divorce Financial Analysts. In our conversation, we talk about the role of the Certified Divorce Financial Analyst in divorce, and ...
February 24, 2024
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Episode 36
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34:02
Important Retirement Plan Changes: The Implications for Late Life Divorce
In Episode 35 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, I discuss the impact of recent congressional legislation relating to retirement plans. The Secure Act 2.0 contains 92 new provisions which could affect the financial decisions of people getting divorce...
February 10, 2024
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Episode 35
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10:36
The Two Key Financial Tools in Divorce
In Episode 34 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, I discuss the two very important financial planning tools to help you before, during and after the divorce process, your budget and your net worth calculation.
January 27, 2024
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Episode 34
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20:11
Reverse Mortgages and Gray Divorce with John Drennen, CDLP
In Episode 33 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, I chat with Certified Divorce Lending Professional John Drennen. We discuss the topic of reverse mortgages, an often misunderstood financing option for older homeowners. You can download the Cl...
January 13, 2024
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Episode 33
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34:01
All About Gray Divorce and the Origins of the Podcast
In Episode 32 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, I am a guest on Real Talk Las Vegas, a YouTube program hosted by Las Vegas realtor Joe DiRaffaele. Joe and I talk about how the Gray Divorce and how The Gray Divorce Podcast came into being.
December 30, 2023
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Episode 32
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30:52
Should I Stay or Should I Go? Discernment Counseling with Linda Hershman, LMFT
In Episode 31 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, I chat with Marriage and Family Therapist Linda Hershman. We discuss the subject of discernment counseling, a short-term counseling approach designed to deal with the question of whether you should sta...
December 16, 2023
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Episode 31
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36:23
Know Yourself! The Wheel of Life - Tools for Growth after Gray Divorce, Part 4
In Episode 30 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, I discuss the coaching tool known as The Wheel of Life. I review the tool, discuss how you might use it in your life and offer a few thoughts as to its efficacy.
December 02, 2023
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Episode 30
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15:29
Know Yourself! Ikigai - Tools for Growth After Gray Divorce, Part 3
In Episode 29 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, I discuss the Japanese concept of Ikigai, or meaning and purpose in one's life. I review the concept and offer some practical tips on how you might find some ikigai in your life.
November 18, 2023
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Episode 29
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16:02
Pet Custody in Divorce with Karis Nafte
In this episode, I chat with Pet Custody Mediator Karis Nafte. Karis discusses the key issues that can arise in the process of deciding who keeps the pets in divorce. We also discuss the special situations of older adults and their pets.
November 04, 2023
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Episode 28
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31:50
The Team Approach to Gray Divorce
In this episode, I talk about the team approach to divorce. Attorneys specialize in the law. But divorce is about money and emotions are involved. Listen to why it makes sense to bring in other professionals to help you get through the process....
October 21, 2023
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Episode 27
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18:42
The Perils of DIY Divorce with Attorney Philip Spradling
In this episode, I chat with Attorney Philip Spradling. Philip discusses the problems that can arise when couples decide to divorce themselves without the assistance of an attorney. DIY divorce can be just as problematic as a long, drawn-out co...
October 07, 2023
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Episode 26
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32:53