The Gray Divorce Podcast
Welcome to The Gray Divorce Podcast. Join Divorce Financial Advisor and Retirement Planning Counsellor Andrew Hatherley and guest experts as they help late life divorcees build the financial foundation for a meaningful life after divorce. There is life after divorce!
Episodes
54 episodes
The Danger of Free Time - Retirement and Gray Divorce with Marianne Oehser
Andrew chats with Marianne Oehser, a Certified Retirement and Relationship Coach. They discuss the link between retirement and late life divorce and the danger that an unstructured, poorly planned retirement can have on a marriage.
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Episode 54
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34:31
Be Aware of Taxes in Divorce!
In Episode 53 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, Andrew discusses the effects of taxes on your divorce settlement. Failing to plan for the after-tax effect of your marital settlement agreement can result in you coming out with much less money than yo...
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Episode 53
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16:59
Insights From a Family Law Conference
Andrew attends the 2024 Nevada Family Law Conference and provides some key takeaways to help your divorce case.
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Episode 52
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19:38
What You Need to Know About QDROs with Shann D. Winesett
Andrew chats with Shann Winesett, a family law attorney and experienced QDRO preparer. They discuss the importance of the QDRO in retirement plan division in divorce. They discuss common mistakes that are made in preparing QDROs and how to avoi...
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Episode 51
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30:59
Special 50th Edition of The Gray Divorce Podcast
Andrew celebrates the 50th episode of the podcast by reviewing your five favorite episodes. He also discusses the origins of the podcast In the hope that it might inspire listeners to get started on their own creative projects.
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Episode 50
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16:22
Does Money Buy Happiness?
In Episode 49 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, Andrew discusses the question of whether money can buy happiness. He discusses recent research that suggests a high degree of correlation between money and happiness. He discusses previous research whi...
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Episode 49
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16:41
Business Valuation in Divorce with Jennifer Allen CPA, ABV
Andrew chats with Jennifer Allen, a business valuation specialist based in Las Vegas. They discuss the importance of business valuation in divorce. How do business buyouts work? What does she look for in business financials to detect attempts t...
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Episode 48
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28:29
Life After Gray Divorce - Rebuilding Overseas with Jeff Opdyke
In episode 47 of The Gray Divorce Podcast Andrew chats with writer and international traveler Jeff Opdyke. Jeff went through a midlife divorce at age 50, after a 25-year marriage. Shortly after the divorce his life was shaken again when he lost...
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Episode 47
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46:38
Finding Hidden Cash in Divorce with Laurie Dyke CPA, CFF, CFE
In Episode 46 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, Andrew chats with Laurie Dyke, a Certified Public Accountant, Certified in Financial Forensics and Certified Fraud Examiner. They discuss some of the ways a spouse may hide cash or intentionally underv...
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Episode 46
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29:26
Resetting after Gray Divorce - The Importance of Gratitude
In Episode 45 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, Andrew discusses the importance of practicing gratitude both during and after divorce. He discusses the psychological and physical benefits of gratitude and offers some tips on how to bring more gratit...
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Episode 45
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15:58
The Legal Cost of Divorce
In Episode 44 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, I discuss the legal costs of divorce. I look at four different divorce processes; traditional litigious divorce through the courts, Collaborative Divorce, mediation and the Amicable Divorce Network and...
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Episode 44
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15:46
Living Abroad After Gray Divorce, Part 2 with Jennifer Stevens, Editor of International Living
In Episode 43 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, Andrew chats with the editor of International Living magazine Jennifer Stevens in the second of a two-part discussion. They discuss the results of International Living’s Global Retirement Inde...
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Episode 43
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49:13
Coaching Stepparents at all Stages of Life with Maria Natapov
In Episode 42 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, Andrew chats with Stepparenting Coach Maria Natapov. They discuss Maria’s focus on helping her clients confidently blend their families through all stages of life.
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Episode 42
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37:48
Living Abroad After Gray Divorce, Part 1 with Jennifer Stevens, Editor of International Living
In Episode 41 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, Andrew chats with the editor of International Living magazine Jennifer Stevens in the first of a two-part discussion. They discuss some of the benefits of living internationally and some of th...
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Episode 41
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36:41
Working with Men as a Relationship Engineer with Bob Wischer
In Episode 40 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, Andrew chats with Life and Health Coach Bob Wischer. A self-described “relationship engineer” Bob is the founder of Heart Forged Coaching and the host of the Men Becoming Better Men podca...
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Episode 40
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39:37
Working with Women as a Divorce Coach with Nanette Murphy
In Episode 39 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, Andrew chats with Life, Health, and Divorce Coach Nanette Murphy. They discuss Nanette’s focus on coaching women through mid-late life divorce after she experienced her own mid-life divorce after decad...
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Episode 39
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40:38
Estate Planning and Gray Divorce with Attorney Amanda Wedl
In Episode 38 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, I chat with attorney Amanda Wedl. We discuss the topic of estate planning and gray divorce. What are some “must dos” and “must avoids” for older divorcees to ensure that their last wishes are fulfilled...
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Episode 38
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33:36
All About Pre-Nups and Post-Nups with Attorney Molly Rosenblum
In Episode 37 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, I chat with attorney Molly Rosenblum. We discuss the topic of prenuptial and postnuptial agreements. What are they and why should a couple have a pre-nup before marriage or get a post-nup after marriag...
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Episode 37
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29:30
Divorce and Finances - A Chat with Carol Lee Roberts, IDFA President
In episode 36 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, I am interviewed by Carol Lee Roberts, president of the Institute for Divorce Financial Analysts. In our conversation, we talk about the role of the Certified Divorce Financial Analyst in divorce, and ...
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Episode 36
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34:02
Important Retirement Plan Changes: The Implications for Late Life Divorce
In Episode 35 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, I discuss the impact of recent congressional legislation relating to retirement plans. The Secure Act 2.0 contains 92 new provisions which could affect the financial decisions of people getting divorce...
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Episode 35
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10:36
The Two Key Financial Tools in Divorce
In Episode 34 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, I discuss the two very important financial planning tools to help you before, during and after the divorce process, your budget and your net worth calculation.
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Episode 34
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20:11
Reverse Mortgages and Gray Divorce with John Drennen, CDLP
In Episode 33 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, I chat with Certified Divorce Lending Professional John Drennen. We discuss the topic of reverse mortgages, an often misunderstood financing option for older homeowners. You can download the Cl...
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Episode 33
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34:01
All About Gray Divorce and the Origins of the Podcast
In Episode 32 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, I am a guest on Real Talk Las Vegas, a YouTube program hosted by Las Vegas realtor Joe DiRaffaele. Joe and I talk about how the Gray Divorce and how The Gray Divorce Podcast came into being.
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Episode 32
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30:52
Should I Stay or Should I Go? Discernment Counseling with Linda Hershman, LMFT
In Episode 31 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, I chat with Marriage and Family Therapist Linda Hershman. We discuss the subject of discernment counseling, a short-term counseling approach designed to deal with the question of whether you should sta...
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Episode 31
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36:23
Know Yourself! The Wheel of Life - Tools for Growth after Gray Divorce, Part 4
In Episode 30 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, I discuss the coaching tool known as The Wheel of Life. I review the tool, discuss how you might use it in your life and offer a few thoughts as to its efficacy.
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Episode 30
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15:29